This week assignment
was to watch a video where Sherry Turkle talked about how technology has
changed our social habits. Sherry Turkle - Alone Together
In the video Sherry was talking about how nowadays people are “alone together”, for example how people are spending time together, but not really concentrating on each other because they are holding their phones and having other conversations or reading something interesting, or playing something trough the internet.
When you’re
having a conversation trough text-messages or e-mails, it’s easier to control
what you say or when you response. You have more time to think about your answer
and for some people it’s easier to express yourself by writing than by talking.
Nowadays
people are used to that they can use their phone when they’re having a “boring
moment” like waiting for something, or they can skip a boring part of a conversation
by consecrating on their phone applications. Some people easily ask others to wait a minute
if they are about to say something, if they’re just reading or writing something
from their phone. Some of our group
members admitted to do the same.
Before it
was very rude to have a phone in your hand for example in work, meeting or at
lecture, but nowadays is really common. Sherry was talking in the video how she doesn’t
want to bother her co-workers if they’re concentrated on their phones or
laptops, because she thinks that they are doing something important, but at the
same time she doesn’t want to be disturbed either.
One of our
group members had a example how a little girl who is used to talk with text
messages, answered to a letter in a simply yes or no, and didn’t realize that
the letters receiver does not know in which questions is she answering to.
Sherry is
talking about the technology partly negatively and party positively, she is
saying that we need to concentrate more on each others “in real life” than
trough the internet. At the same time she’s really happy about a text message
that her daughter sent her earlier. People still need to remember that texting
is not same as real face to face conversation, so many little things like body
language and tone of voice is missing. Emojis does not replace the human face.
We think
that the most important message that Sherry is talking is that we need to learn
how to use technology to make more good than bad, like make our relationships stronger.
We need to find a golden mean between technological
and real life communication and let those support each others, not just focus
one or the other.
M.T